Your Holiday Mom: Mama Sarah

My sweet, sweet Holiday Child,

It’s that time of year again…the time between Halloween and next year’s Halloween J You know I always have such an affinity towards Halloween, but Thanksgiving and Christmas are much more enjoyable with you and your energy.

This year has gone by quickly, just as every year has. It’s had its fair share of up’s and down’s, but I hope your contagious smile and joyous laugh has carried you through. Just remember that I am always here if you ever need a shoulder to lean on. You are always welcome here anytime you need a reprieve from the day to day. We love you so very much for exactly who you are. You are brave, you are loving, you are special. Sometimes when everyone gets busy with their day to day, they forget that they have a special reason for being in this world – yours is to bring joy to everyone you encounter. Your smile, demeanor, and that sparkle in your eyes brighten the world around you. Never lose that sparkle, never let anyone dim that sparkle.

Thanksgiving we’ll spend at Grandma’s & Grandpa’s house then over to Aunt Marsha’s. Cory and Jesse are coming down with the girls to stay with us all weekend. We decided to scale down Friendsgiving this year and will only have a few close friends over – we’re still deciding on the theme, I think we’ve settled on Friedsgiving! Scot is going to deep fry the turkey! Maybe while you’re home, we can put up the Christmas tree. I know, I know…Not like me to want to put it up a month early, but with how busy everyone is, this may be the only time we’re all together before Christmas. And before you know it, it’ll be New Year’s Eve and we’ll all be back to the hustle and bustle of jobs, life, and friends then it’ll be the holidays all over again.

See you soon!!

Love,

Mama Sarah

28 comments

  1. Arlo says:

    Hi there.
    I’m Arlo, I am 18, and pansexual. I’ve recently been kicked out of my house, and currently live in a shelter. I have anxiety and depression and I have been holding off sending you a comment after reading your letter. It made me feel a lot better tbh. Thank you

  2. Brittany says:

    I am 25 married lesbian. Its like we are so excited for Christmas and in love. Happy to be apart of each others worlds for 3 years now..allot of our family did not go to our wedding and some even refused. Not allot has changed :/ If I had one Christmas wish it would just be that people open their hearts a little more this year. The fact that this exists makes me so incredibly happy. Marry Christmas to all the Mom’s

    • Brigid says:

      Hi Brittany,
      Congratulation on your happy marriage! Thanks for dropping by and telling us a little about yourself. Your story is evidence that happiness can be achieved even when some family members are not supportive.
      Have a beautiful holiday season! Hugs!

  3. Lynn says:

    Sup my dudes, I’m a young queer and even though that my family accepts me as gay, I have depression. This site helps me to have another reminder that I have worth; I’m so thankful that this website is a thing.

    • Mama Sarah says:

      Hello Lynn!
      I’m so happy you’re here! This site is a great break from things that start to weigh on us. I hope you find comfort in knowing there are so many people here that know your worth is priceless! You are deserving of all the happiness your heart can hold! I hope you stop back often! Hugs from my heart to yours<3

  4. Chris says:

    Hey I’m kinda new too this and my friend found this page on her Instagram and recommended me here and told me to comment so here goes nothing

    • Mama Sarah says:

      Hi Chris!
      Welcome to the family! We’re all happy you’re here! I hope you feel the love and acceptance from across the world to your heart! Hugs from my heart to yours <3

  5. Fabi says:

    This site is just so cute
    I found this on instagram and i just started crying how cute this is
    I’m a 17 year old gay genderfluid.
    My family doesnt accept it and i love this site
    It’s just like a safeplace where is just love and happiness

    • Your Holiday Ciocia says:

      Hi Fabi,

      We all love this site too, and there is indeed soooooo much love and happiness!! Come by anytime.

    • Mama Sarah says:

      Hi Fabi!
      I’m so glad you’re here! This is absolutely a safe place filled with love, acceptance and happiness! I hope you’ll stop by often to say hello!! Hugs from my heart to yours <3

  6. Hannah says:

    This is so beautiful. I found this website through Instagram. So thankful! I’ll read these letters every day. it’s very hard being closeted not even knowing yourself, or what you want. thank you for the support. it’s really needed right now. I need some happiness in my life.

    • Brigid says:

      Hi Hannah,

      You are so welcome!!! Thanks for your lovely note.

      Getting to know our true selves can be a long process sometimes. It happens earlier for some and later for others and that’s all perfectly normal. Give yourself time. Be kind to yourself. You deserve kindness in your life as well as happiness.

      As for being closeted, that’s ok too. Once you have a better idea of who you are deep down, a time may come when you feel you can share your wonderful news with friends and family (or maybe just certain people at first). There is no rush there either. Everyone has their own pace and you’ll get to know yours. It’s all good.

      So glad you found us here at Your Holiday Mom. Our aim is to help you feel welcome, accepted and loved. You are a beautiful person, Hannah, and deserve to be happy. The world is a brighter place because of you!

      Sending love and hugs your way!

    • Mama Sarah says:

      Hi Hannah!
      We’re glad you’re here and we will give you support and acceptance through your journey, wherever that journey takes you. Sometimes as you’re going through life, you feel you don’t know which path to take, how to define your individualality, or who you are. But that’s what makes you you. The kind, bright human that you are. Spend time discovering who you are, what makes you tick, what excites you and energized you. Self discover and focusing on self awareness isn’t selfish, it’s self care and self love.
      I hope you come back often! Hugs from my heart to yours <3

  7. Aileen says:

    Hallo!
    Thank you so much for this words! Its such Amazing to hear some Nice words from time To Time… Not having the best time at the Moment and it feels like I have Nobody I can talk to even if I have lots of people around me… so reading some nice words Really helped. Thank you so much <3

    • Brigid says:

      Hi Aileen!
      It can be a lonely time of year for a lot of people. We are here for you any time you need to hear some kind words. Drop by often!

      Remember, even when it feels like you are all alone, there are millions of loving souls all over this wonderful world who would accept you, respect you and support you just the way you are. As you go through life you’ll meet and invite many loving people into your life: people who love you just the way you are.

      Wishing you a beautiful holiday season, Aileen. Sending virtual hugs and real love your way!

      • Aileen says:

        Thank you so much for such beautiful words- I Really needed it! Since I do Not feel really accepted at the moment neither am I really happy…. there are many people ( My Family) making Jokes about the way I Look, they think I am Fine with it and also see it as joke… I don‘t. Also I do not feel all comfortable with My friends etc…. That I still have to life with My parents for a few years dosen‘t help either…So your Nice words are really helping me going through this time and making it through Family dinners and stuff…
        ( I am sorry for any mistakes, english isn‘t my First Language, but I don‘t know other persons I could Talk To…..)

        • Brigid says:

          Dear Aileen,
          You are very welcome!
          I’m sorry to hear that your family jokes about the way you look. Sometimes families can be hurtful without knowing it, and need to be reminded that jokes can hurt.
          You deserve respect, as well as love. I believe in you. Take care of yourself, Aileen! Hugs!

    • Mama Sarah says:

      Hi Aileen!
      So happy you’re here! There’s so many people who love you and will listen anytime you need to talk. What you have to say is important and what you’re feeling is just as important. I hope you stop back often! Your virtual family is here for you whenever you need us! <3 Hugs from my heart to yours!

        • Mama Sarah says:

          I’m sorry to hear that Aileen; no one deserves to be made into a joke based on their looks and choices in life. You seem to have a beautiful personality and a kind heart. You are always welcomed here and have a safe place with nothing but love <3

  8. Brigid says:

    Hello Han,
    Thank you for writing to us. It is wonderful to hear that we’ve given you some hope. There really are millions of people all over the world who have no problem with you being gay. You’ve found a group of those people here, and we love you just as you are.
    Drop by and read our letters anytime you want. We are here to support you. Best wishes for a beautiful holiday season! Sending virtual hugs!

  9. Han says:

    Right now I’m halfway across the world from home, choked up in a library having read this very first post.

    My parents do not know that I am gay, and it is likely they never will because I understand their opinions enough to know that I would never be accepted if I told them. But reading this gave me some hope, and it gave me a glimpse of what acceptance looked like.

    Thank you so much for this — it definitely gave me warmth I needed for today.

    • Mama Sarah says:

      Hello Han!

      I hope my love and acceptance of your choices comes through my Letter. You aren’t alone in your journey, all of the Holiday Moms and Holiday Families are here for you! Cheering you on, accepting you, and loving you! Acceptance looks different for many, and acceptance can grow into a welcoming warmth from those you love the most. Hugs from my heart to yours <3

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